black long sleeve dress floor length Stone Embellished XL / Military Balls Women's Black Chiffon Boat Neck

However, if you dont want to shock your family too much, there are plenty of fit and flare wedding dresses from Martin Thornburg that are more subtle (but still sexy)

I would personally have them hemmed straight across, maybe mid-seat, so they could be worn tucked if you wanted more versatility

If you just want to layer for the look and not the warmth use a snug-fitting sleeveless mock neck top, like this one

Newlyweds introduced

For a snug and comfortable fit, it is completely lined and constructed of breathable polyester

Panel seams add dimension while creating a tight-fitting silhouette that fits snugly and accentuates curves